tomorow is the day

My daughter is very bright, she made the superintendents honor every nine weeks last school year,and she is already doing first grade math. but she is very difficult at times, I noticed that she started lining up toys at about the age of two or three, she learned to talk and walk and she gave up the bottle at nine months. she potty trained at three but that is mainly because her older brother wasn't yet and she is very stubborn. she use to have to turn the lights on and off about three times and open and close the bathroom door before she went to bed, she has quit doing that, I think the diet is helping her their, she grinds her teeth she has always done that. she has to have things go a certain way or she will trow things, spit on you, throw water on you, she has no patience. at school we had to prompt her to talk to other kids, she says that making friends is hard and she pretty much stays to herself, she will talk to other kids but she doesn't seem interested in making any stable friends yet. Tomorrow I am taking her to see my sons psychiatrist to get her evaluated for Aspergers.